Dear younger self, it’s future me
What if you could meet your younger self today? What would you say? Would you offer advice, reassurance, or simply a warm hug? Life unfolds in ways we never expect, and sometimes, the best wisdom comes from reflecting on the journey we’ve experienced. Here’s a heartfelt message to the past—one filled with love, trust, and the beauty of embracing the unknown.
(Photo credit to Muskan)
Muskan Nechlani is a software developer with 4.5 years of experience in the IT industry. As a computer engineer and tech enthusiast, she thrives on problem-solving and innovation. But beyond the code, she is an artist at heart—expressing herself through doodles, painting, and creative experiments in the kitchen.
I bumped into my younger self today.
The first I did was to give her a warm hug, and this is my message to her:
I know you’re often caught between wanting to control everything and feeling the weight of uncertainty. I know you want to know what’s next, to have a roadmap for your life.
But life is a canvas, not a blueprint. It’s okay to feel lost sometimes, to have doors close in your face. Those closed doors are not rejections, they are redirections. The universe has a plan for you, a plan grander than anything ever imagined.
Believe in your abilities, creativity, intuition and trust the process, you will love how everything turns out 💖
(Photo credit to Pooja)
Born and raised in India, Pooja has been living in Singapore since 2021. She is a Clinical and Radiation Oncologist, dedicated to helping others while also prioritising her own well-being. Outside of work, she embraces activities that relieve stress—whether it’s yoga, walks, hikes, hitting the gym, or traveling to new places, she’s always up for an adventure and a moment of peace! ✌🏻
I met my younger self today.
She asked me many questions about life, and how will her future look like.
Out of the several questions, one stood out – How do you balance giving love and receiving it in return?
I replied with a smile: “Continue to love fully, as you always have. Your heart is your greatest gift—let it shine without fear and hesitation. Love deeply, but also remember to love yourself just as much.”
(Photo credit to Brenda Tan)
Brenda Tan is a Singaporean creative, online personality and business owner. Armed with an unapologetic love for life, adventure, creativity and a passion for storytelling, she views content creation as her ultimate vehicle of self-expression. Her content ranges from lifestyle and food to fashion and beauty, and aims to be thoughtful, sincere and refreshing. She also runs Chilli Padi Studio, a boutique arts and crafts studio.
I met my younger self today.
She asked me many questions about life, and how will her future look like.
Out of the several questions, one stood out – How do you balance giving love and receiving it in return?
I replied with a smile: “Continue to love fully, as you always have. Your heart is your greatest gift—let it shine without fear and hesitation. Love deeply, but also remember to love yourself just as much.”
Life is not about having all the answers but about embracing each step with courage and grace. As we navigate this journey, may we always carry the wisdom of self-trust, the strength to love fully, and the belief that every twist and turn leads us exactly where we are meant to be. So, to our younger selves—we’ve got this. 💖
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